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<channel><title><![CDATA[Mental Illumination - Where the Heart Goes (The Soapbox)]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/where-the-heart-goes-the-soapbox.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[Where the Heart Goes (The Soapbox)]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2012 20:15:01 -0600</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Politica Stigmatica]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/10/politica-stigmatica.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/10/politica-stigmatica.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2012 21:24:18 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/10/politica-stigmatica.html</guid><description><![CDATA[The time is upon us when voters in the United&nbsp;States will have to put up or shut up...well, now that I think of it, there is a&nbsp;great deal of put up and very little shut up.&nbsp; No matter where one looks there are&nbsp;political ads being shoved down the throats of the collective populous.&nbsp; Picking a candidate has become a&nbsp;crapshoot no matter which group one favors.&nbsp; The truth of the matter is that no one&nbsp;likes a bull [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The time is upon us when voters in the United&nbsp;States will have to put up or shut up...well, now that I think of it, there is a&nbsp;great deal of put up and very little shut up.&nbsp; No matter where one looks there are&nbsp;political ads being shoved down the throats of the collective populous.&nbsp; Picking a candidate has become a&nbsp;crapshoot no matter which group one favors.&nbsp; The truth of the matter is that no one&nbsp;likes a bully, but the only way to get anything done is Washington is to be a&nbsp;bully.&nbsp; Thus, nothing is being&nbsp;done.<br /><br />Politicians are full of promises.&nbsp;&nbsp;It is what each does to sway the multitudes to their party's favor.&nbsp; I am not saying that all politicians&nbsp;are liars; that is a stereotype that has been around for ages.&nbsp;&nbsp;There are both good and bad in every line of work.&nbsp;&nbsp;What I am saying is that whether lying or not, each candidate says what&nbsp;each must to get the higher number of votes.&nbsp; The major problem with bills and laws&nbsp;passing and not passing is that the system is corrupt.&nbsp;&nbsp;Lobbyists roam Washington campaigning for private interests to which each&nbsp;attaches to a faceless group of voters, which nine times out of ten are the <br /> higher echelon of a huge corporation.&nbsp;&nbsp;These "interests" now have a Senator or Representative attach their "list&nbsp;of demands" or "wish list" to whatever bill is floating through the House or&nbsp;Senate at the time.&nbsp; This little&nbsp;added bit is accompanied by a ton of other bits, and pretty soon, the bill is so&nbsp;bogged down with bits that there is something for which everyone to object.&nbsp; This is why nothing gets done folks.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /> Quite honestly, I say ban the lobbyists unless each can provide&nbsp;proof of the section of public each represents, such as a list of names and&nbsp;where each works to be verified.&nbsp; <br /> The IRS has the information anyway, and so does the Social Security&nbsp;Department, which are both governmental agencies.&nbsp;&nbsp;Of course, some are not flowing with moral fiber, so perhaps it would be&nbsp;more prudent to just ban lobbying and have the Representatives, and Senators&nbsp;bring information from voters in each area.&nbsp;That should clear up some of the&nbsp;congestive heart failure that is ailing the system.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /><span></span><br /> The United States government was created "by the people for the&nbsp;people".&nbsp; My question would be&nbsp;"what people"?&nbsp; Might is be the one&nbsp;to five percent (depending on to whom one speaks) that are the millionaire&nbsp;sect?&nbsp; If so, that group is not the&nbsp;average American.&nbsp; The average American is in a whirl with worry now.&nbsp;If the bills can even be paid, there is no money for groceries.&nbsp; If one makes sure the family is fed,&nbsp;then the bill collectors call until the phone and other bills are shut off.&nbsp; These are the worries of "the&nbsp;people".&nbsp;&nbsp; I have said it&nbsp;before, businesses are not people, and News Flash for those corporations out&nbsp;there with the millions in profit that is never enough: if the "little people"&nbsp;have no money, your money will lose all its worth, because sooner of or later,&nbsp;people will go back to the barter and/or trade system just as the trend is&nbsp;shifting back to home schooling because the school system no longer works.&nbsp; The populous is getting back to the&nbsp;thought that if one wants something done right, each must do it for him or&nbsp;herself.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /> To the candidates, I say: "Each of you is in place to work for&nbsp;the best interest of the people, all the people; not just corporations and/or&nbsp;"big business".&nbsp; The price of <br /> living is causing the other 95 to 99% of the population to fall into the&nbsp;depression that the economy still faces.&nbsp;Time for pointing fingers is over gentlemen.&nbsp;&nbsp;It is time to act for everyone's best interest.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /> To the masses, I say:&nbsp; "Vote.&nbsp; I know it seems that&nbsp;no matter whom one votes for the US keeps diving further into a mess, but if&nbsp;one does not exercise the right to vote, there is no room to complain about the&nbsp;one's circumstances.&nbsp; It may be a&nbsp;crapshoot, but slim odds are better than no odds.&nbsp;All I ask is that each votes for what he or she knows to be truth.&nbsp; This is not a small chore.&nbsp;&nbsp;I am not talking about rhetoric that some parrot like it is his or her&nbsp;own thoughts. &nbsp;I am speaking of&nbsp;that truth which each person has deep within one's being.&nbsp;&nbsp;Stop bothering to place blame and listening to the endless flow of&nbsp;rhetoric.&nbsp; Listen to neighbors and&nbsp;family.&nbsp; Look outside the&nbsp;convenient windows that frame typical thinking.&nbsp; Really look at the situations of&nbsp;others.<br /><span></span><br />I am in great hopes that those who voted early have already&nbsp;instinctively done this.&nbsp; Be <br /> assured that I intend to follow my own advice.&nbsp; In the meantime, I wish the best to one and&nbsp;all.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> <br /><span></span><br /><span></span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Assaults on the Individual Feminine]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/08/assaults-on-the-individual-feminine.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/08/assaults-on-the-individual-feminine.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2012 22:10:30 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/08/assaults-on-the-individual-feminine.html</guid><description><![CDATA[  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='z-index:10;position:relative;float:left;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/uploads/5/1/2/1/5121879/1345685971.jpg" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;">Recent news coverage of comments made by <br /> particular individuals in the Republican Party brings to light a twisted and&nbsp;ill-informed bank of information pertaining to the victims of sexual assault,&nbsp;and women in particular.&nbsp; It is not&nbsp;enough that the legal system tends to favor the perpetrator, not the victim in&nbsp;such cases, but now, Representative Todd Akin has moved a step further when&nbsp;discussing pregnancies that stem from sexual assault.&nbsp;&nbsp;Akin commented, when asked about abortion and rape that, "from what I&nbsp;understand from doctors, if it's a legitimate rape, the female body has ways to&nbsp;shut that whole thing down."&nbsp;<br /><span></span><br /> While others in the Republican Party were quick to distance&nbsp;themselves from Akin and his comments, even asking him to resign from the race&nbsp;for the Senate, their actions do not expunge his comments from public record,&nbsp;or the minds of women everywhere.&nbsp;<br /> Coupled by this ill-informed comment is the news that Mitt Romney's&nbsp;choice for Vice President, Paul Ryan, has adjusted his views on abortion, from totally against it, to fit&nbsp;Mr. Romney&rsquo;s, which are that abortions should be restricted for cases of&nbsp;"forcible rape" and/or incest.&nbsp;Some may take consolation in this information, but as for me, I do&nbsp;not.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /> The idea that a bill, law, or an inlet of governmental perception&nbsp;in general, can logically and/or morally use a phrase such as "forcible rape"&nbsp;leaves me shivering, not only from fear for the future, but anger and&nbsp;frustration as well.&nbsp;&nbsp;The word "rape" denotes force in and of itself.&nbsp;&nbsp;There are no dividing lines when it comes to rape.&nbsp; A&nbsp;"rape" is the unlawful compelling of a person through&nbsp;physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse,&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person, and an act of plunder, violent seizure, or abuse.&nbsp;(Dictionary.com)&nbsp;Using a dictionary&nbsp;may seem&nbsp;to give a tight definition, but all the definitions found will refer to "force" in some way shape of form, and that includes the definition of "rape" in the minds of most individuals.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /><span></span><br />Others will make up his or her own mind about&nbsp;politics, and for reasons known&nbsp;only to them; but I, for one, do not want individuals within our government &nbsp;that do not&nbsp;know the difference&nbsp;between consensual sexual relations and rape, let alone thinking a person's body can physically prevent a pregnancy that results from&nbsp;sexual assault.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;I want&nbsp;women and girls to know that if sexually assaulted, it is <strong>not</strong> your fault.&nbsp;Whether the rape happens&nbsp;by being jumped by a stranger, or on a date, or by a family member;&nbsp;the fault does&nbsp;not belong to the victim.&nbsp; If a pregnancy stems from the&nbsp;rape,&nbsp;it could not have magically been stopped by the body just because&nbsp;one wishes to stop&nbsp;the conception.&nbsp; I would not want anyone I know to torture&nbsp;him or herself over a sexual assault, and I sure as hell don't want&nbsp;a government that does it for them either. <br />&nbsp;<br /><span></span><br /><span></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Snobbery Amongst the Ranks]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/05/snobbery-amongst-the-ranks.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/05/snobbery-amongst-the-ranks.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 16:05:01 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/05/snobbery-amongst-the-ranks.html</guid><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&nbsp;While it has long since been a tradition of academia to be looked&nbsp;upon as something "above" the masses, or that &nbsp;which contained those with "loftier&nbsp; goals", that premise is simply not the case in many instances. &nbsp;One&nbsp;can easily point out the resent publicized fiascos of instructors taking&nbsp;advantage of their status with students, but while despicable and completely  lacking in morals, I'm not talking about those instances. &n [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">&nbsp;&nbsp;While it has long since been a tradition of academia to be looked&nbsp;upon as something "above" the masses, or that &nbsp;which contained those with "loftier&nbsp; goals", that premise is simply not the case in many instances. &nbsp;One&nbsp;can easily point out the resent publicized fiascos of instructors taking&nbsp;advantage of their status with students, but while despicable and completely <br /> lacking in morals, I'm not talking about those instances. &nbsp;Such&nbsp;happenings have been hashed, and re-hashed, and there comes a time when&nbsp;mentioning it again only serves to give publicity to those who do not need&nbsp;it.<br /><br />I am talking about those in academia who place themselves above&nbsp;others in related fields in an attempt to immerse in self-importance, and&nbsp;secretly hope to catch a moment in the sun by downplaying others' work. This is&nbsp;nothing new in the academic/literary world, but it does show a closed mind, and&nbsp; holier-than-thou disposition. A number seem to gain a PhD and lose their&nbsp; ability to relate to humanity. An elevated degree does not give one the right&nbsp;to cast eyes and temperament down on others. One would think that morality&nbsp; dictates instead that those in such a position aid others with the skills&nbsp; acquired.<br /><br />Literature has been studied by academia for ages, and thusly&nbsp; so, yet over the years an odious pattern has formed, where by at least one genre&nbsp;or form of literature is placed in exile and judged as an unworthy form. One of&nbsp; he forms being berated these days is Children&rsquo;s' Literature. Anyone who writes&nbsp;for this genre can inform academia what stringent thought goes on before a&nbsp; project actually goes in to development. Those that write for more than one <br /> genre can further exemplify that the process is the same for a Children&rsquo;s' book&nbsp;as it is for any other work, with the possible exception of working with an&nbsp; illustrator for more than cover art.<br /><br />One of the things that bothers me&nbsp;the most is the flippant disregard for a colleague's work. Now, everyone knows&nbsp;that I write in many different genres, Children&rsquo;s' included, and I, like most,&nbsp;have favorite authors in most of them; but it is incomprehensible to me that&nbsp;anyone, me included, would stand up just to knock colleagues that find merit in&nbsp;the study of a work from Children&rsquo;s' Literature. &nbsp;I&nbsp;am thinking of one case in particular where a work, or rather series of works,&nbsp;was studied by a group of professors due to the large acceptance of the work, <br /> and the fact that it crossed generational boundaries. This group was later under&nbsp;the scrutiny of a colleague for studying the series.<br /><br />It is important to&nbsp;place things into perspective. &nbsp;The&nbsp;academic community is in a position of gaining knowledge in order to pass said&nbsp;knowledge on to future generations. This said, it would seem detrimental to that&nbsp; purpose to disallow a genre of literature that helps form the love of literature&nbsp;in young minds and imaginations. &nbsp;I&nbsp; believe it was stated by the person in question that the series would not have&nbsp; been studied at all if not for the mass consumption by the populous. If no one&nbsp; has already done so, I would like to be the first to remind my learned colleague&nbsp; that he would not be publically turning his nose down at his fellow colleagues&nbsp;for studying the series, and gaining publicity in the process, were it not for&nbsp;the same reason! &nbsp;Attempt giving&nbsp;that a swallow my friend.<br /><span></span><br /><span></span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Update on Writing and a Sincere Thanks]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/03/update-on-writing-and-a-sincere-thanks.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/03/update-on-writing-and-a-sincere-thanks.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 21:44:41 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/03/update-on-writing-and-a-sincere-thanks.html</guid><description><![CDATA[As of this week I have three Childrens' books written, and a fourth in the works.&nbsp; I had an idea for a fifth earlier today, but the notion escapes me at the moment; so, I am placing that on the back burner until my brain decides to shine a light on it once again.&nbsp; To all those who downloaded my Poetry eBook, It's Only Natural, thank you.&nbsp; Your patronage is most welcome and I do appreciat [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text">As of this week I have three Childrens' books written, and a fourth in the works.&nbsp; I had an idea for a fifth earlier today, but the notion escapes me at the moment; so, I am placing that on the back burner until my brain decides to shine a light on it once again.&nbsp; <br /><span></span><br /><span>To all those who downloaded my Poetry eBook, <em><strong>It's Only Natural</strong></em>, thank you.&nbsp; Your patronage is most welcome and I do appreciate your confidence in my writing. I am in hopes that its only appeal was not the fact that it was free during the promotional campagn.&nbsp; ;~D <br /><span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span></span></span></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[In For a Penny, In For a Pound]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/02/in-for-a-penny-in-for-a-pound.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/02/in-for-a-penny-in-for-a-pound.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 20:46:52 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/02/in-for-a-penny-in-for-a-pound.html</guid><description><![CDATA[With an upcoming election in November, and political&nbsp;ads and temperaments plastered all over the television, internet, and any place&nbsp;else one might attempt to go, it is easy to become irritated by the continual&nbsp;barrage invading one&rsquo;s life and senses.&nbsp;&nbsp;There is an easy, albeit drastic solution to the invasions...turn the&nbsp;media off! Yes, one must stay abreast of the information to make informed&nb [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">With an upcoming election in November, and political&nbsp;ads and temperaments plastered all over the television, internet, and any place&nbsp;else one might attempt to go, it is easy to become irritated by the continual&nbsp;barrage invading one&rsquo;s life and senses.&nbsp;&nbsp;There is an easy, albeit drastic solution to the invasions...turn the&nbsp;media off! Yes, one must stay abreast of the information to make informed&nbsp;decisions, and yes, knowledge is power; but the truth is that with all the&nbsp;pounding on one&rsquo;s senses by the over-paid children in Washington, it is near <br /> impossible to gather one&rsquo;s thoughts to make a decision anyway.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /> Point of fact, as far as unnecessary information goes, there is a&nbsp;plethora of unwanted, and unneeded so-called &ldquo;information&rdquo; clogging up the&nbsp;airwaves.&nbsp; For instance...was&nbsp;anyone surprised that the Republicans are having tantrums over the President&rsquo;s&nbsp;budget plans?&nbsp; Let me just say now&nbsp;that if you or anyone you know was caught off guard by that news, there must be <br /> a cozy residence under a rock somewhere that the individual inhabits.&nbsp; Who would not expect the fluently&nbsp;wealthy to have fits over a president wanting to raise his or her taxes and make <br /> it so that each of them has to pay the same taxes that the average American&nbsp;pays?&nbsp; That was completely surplus&nbsp;information.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /> There is a wondrous array of information at the fingertips of the&nbsp;masses in today&rsquo;s world, yet, more and more those masses are weighed-under by&nbsp;loads of hogwash that shouldn&rsquo;t even pass for news.&nbsp;&nbsp;It would seem that if Washington&rsquo;s rival &ldquo;gangs&rdquo;acted like adults for&nbsp;once, and actually communicated for the better of &ldquo;all&rdquo;,instead of his or her&nbsp;own pocketbooks; and some poor celebrity didn&rsquo;t shuffle off their mortal coil,&nbsp;the media would have nothing to discuss, and a hush would befall the world over.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> Is all this surplus information doing anyone any good?&nbsp;Or is it doing more harm than&nbsp;good? Is it really a grand idea to give a murdering maniac a book and/or movie&nbsp;deal?&nbsp; One would think it would&nbsp;occur to someone that this type of incentive would breed a world of murderous <br /> maniacs.&nbsp; Young people are&nbsp;murdering others to &ldquo;see what it feels like.&rdquo;&nbsp; I would say these teens need to ask&nbsp;those who have lived through wars and came home not being able to get the <br /> pictures and horrors out of their minds.&nbsp;&nbsp;Oh yes, it was such a great thrill that the flashbacks haunt everyday of&nbsp;their lives. So, these kids should be offered a chance at stardom? I think not.&nbsp;<br /><br /> Individualistic moral compasses have not just been lost, morality&nbsp;has been set ablaze! There are politically correct terms for everything now, but&nbsp;media coverage goes to the Republican/Democrat comedy hour (vaudeville was more&nbsp;entertaining), and every problem society has, but no one wants to cover any&nbsp;information on solutions.&nbsp;Teen&nbsp;pregnancy is an issue, so don&rsquo;t give these girls a television show, teach them&nbsp;to think more of themselves before the fact.&nbsp; Having children and/or marriage is&nbsp;<u>not </u>&ldquo;playing house&rdquo;. &nbsp;Some&nbsp;screeching type A is verbally abusing a bunch of kids placed in her class for&nbsp;some lessons, arrest her for child abuse, but don&rsquo;t put her up as a television&nbsp;icon.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /> It is every person&rsquo;s responsibility to carry a sense of morality&nbsp;and good sense, so why should we hold our media to anything less.&nbsp;&nbsp;Stop the madness and do some real reporting on issues that need&nbsp;attention. Society needs information, <u>not</u> sensationalizing.</div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who Am I]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/who-am-i.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/who-am-i.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 20:37:39 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/who-am-i.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Humans are very intricate beings that&nbsp;cannot be totally classified, or defined; therefore, I am uncertain as how to&nbsp;adequately express who I am to another person since I am unable to completely&nbsp;understand who I am within my own being. People are essentially to one another,  if only for a short time, who their counterpart perceives them to be at that&nbsp;given moment.&nbsp;This set thought of&nbsp;one another is [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">Humans are very intricate beings that&nbsp;cannot be totally classified, or defined; therefore, I am uncertain as how to&nbsp;adequately express who I am to another person since I am unable to completely&nbsp;understand who I am within my own being. People are essentially to one another, <br> if only for a short time, who their counterpart perceives them to be at that&nbsp;given moment.&nbsp;This set thought of&nbsp;one another is what I believe causes conflict.&nbsp; The human mind tends to look for black&nbsp;and white answers in a &ldquo;shades of gray&rdquo; world.&nbsp;People have common interests and <br> somewhat similar thoughts and beliefs which unite them on a certain level, yet a&nbsp;person must remain an individual to remain true to himself or herself as well as&nbsp;those around him or her.&nbsp; Without&nbsp;individuality, the world would be a boring, dismal place. Without everyday <br> adversities and differences which challenge us to remain us but bend to realize&nbsp;the countless possibilities of the beings around us and trying to understand&nbsp;where the other person is coming from in order to respect his or her individuality.&nbsp; Who am I is a&nbsp;question that has puzzled generation upon generation of man.&nbsp;Scientists have argued over it, Philosophers have theorized it, and&nbsp; Artists and Poets have experimented and tried to capture it.&nbsp;&nbsp;An executive may say that she just does her job, therefore she uses her&nbsp;career to define her being and ignores any deeper personification.&nbsp; A parent may say that her children make-up their entire world, but then&nbsp;if this is true, are they in essence saying that her children took their <br> identity? If this thought was based in actuality, then who is the student and&nbsp;who is the teacher of such a relationship?<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br> There are many attributes that make an individual who he or she is.&nbsp; No one person is the same; therefore,&nbsp;every person contributes to the world around him in a unique manner.&nbsp; <br> This is as true of myself as it is with any individual.&nbsp;&nbsp;I do not believe that a person simply is or is not&nbsp;defined by what he or she does or feels at any given point in time.&nbsp;&nbsp;One of the most essential factors in the survival of the human race has&nbsp;been adaptation. As a person adapts to his or her unique set of life experiences,&nbsp; he or she is not exactly the same person as before.&nbsp; <br> The world has an endless cycle of change and new experiences that alter&nbsp;the human psyche.&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br> My children and husband are forever etched in my heart, and not only is being a mother and wife a large part of who I am, it is also a looming cloud of&nbsp;&ldquo;old world&rdquo; voices in the back of my mind that push and prod me to feel huge waves of guilt if I do not spend every waking moment catering to their every whim. Although I have four children, plus various non-blood children to whom I&nbsp;play mother, sometimes I feel as though I have five children living with me, but&nbsp;my husband, Steven, has spent our life together trying to change the limited and <br> lowly view of myself that I was given by family as a child.&nbsp; My children come to my life each day bearing gifts. Some days the gift is&nbsp;pride, others it is joy, still other packages hold tears, guilt or fears; but no&nbsp;matter what the days bring, above all, I love my&nbsp;children.<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br> I am made up of a veritable spectrum of nuances in reality and fantasy.&nbsp; I am a never-ending <br> student of life. I feel that it is imperative to continue to learn throughout&nbsp;one&rsquo;s life.&nbsp; If&nbsp; knowledge is&nbsp;expanded, then so are dreams and the power to make them a reality.&nbsp;&nbsp; My endless quest for new ideas, ideals, approaches and experiences have lead to theoretical and analytical views of different cultures, religions and in&nbsp;general, the world around me.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br> As a child, I wondered at butterflies and how something as beautifully&nbsp;delicate and gentle as they could hold so easily the power to fly when I could not.&nbsp;After going through times in <br> my adolescent and pre-adult life that were more like nightmares than dreams, I&nbsp;learned to allow my&nbsp;mind take flight and feel wonder&nbsp;at the world around me once again.&nbsp; I have learned that I am tougher than I ever thought and hurt more simply&nbsp;than I ever wanted to accept.<br><span></span><br>My ideas and ideals are a collage of bits and pieces that I have&nbsp;collected throughout my life, while I was busy building the person that I am. Neither I nor any other individual can be confined to a simple definition of his&nbsp;or her being because there are no walls in an open mind, heart or spirit.&nbsp; I am a mother and wife, a student and teacher, a dreamer/philosopher and analyst, a diplomat and instigator, a&nbsp;poet/writer and yet unable to express my feelings, a believer and skeptic and so&nbsp;much more.&nbsp; I am every feeling I ever experienced and those that I have not experienced because of the space&nbsp;within my life that those experiences have not yet filled.<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br> The world is made up of many drops of water in the eternal pond; I am but one of those drops, and every time another drop enters the pond, the waters are&nbsp;never the same again.&nbsp; I have <br> already made the contribution to life&rsquo;s waters with my mere existence; I am only <br> hoping to lead a life that leaves my impression, not only on the pond, but on my <br> fellow drops as well.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br> <br><span></span><br><span></span></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Truth As It Exists]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/the-truth-as-it-exists.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/the-truth-as-it-exists.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 23:59:22 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/the-truth-as-it-exists.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Truth is not universal.&nbsp;It is an individual perception that&nbsp;lends itself to menacing abuses of the free speech.&nbsp;&nbsp;The only real truth is that there are as many perceptions of truth as&nbsp;there are stars in the sky.&nbsp; To&nbsp;know one's inner self as a constantly changing being, and therefore, having&nbsp;parts of one's changing spirit pulled out and judged is an unfortunate fact of  existence within  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">Truth is not universal.&nbsp;It is an individual perception that&nbsp;lends itself to menacing abuses of the free speech.&nbsp;&nbsp;The only real truth is that there are as many perceptions of truth as&nbsp;there are stars in the sky.&nbsp; To&nbsp;know one's inner self as a constantly changing being, and therefore, having&nbsp;parts of one's changing spirit pulled out and judged is an unfortunate fact of <br /> existence within a closed-minded world.&nbsp;&nbsp;This does not mean that less harm will be focused upon a person who does&nbsp;not speak the truths of their inner self, as he or she knows them at a given&nbsp;point in time.&nbsp;It is a given fact&nbsp;that no one person within existence can make a decision without affecting the&nbsp;whole of the rest of such an existence.&nbsp;&nbsp;Like ripples in a pond, the center of an action moves out and affects the&nbsp;calm of the waters around it.&nbsp;<br /><span></span><br /> It is wise to observe the world as it exists and hold silence in those times of observation; but it is just as wise to be true to the inner self that dwells with each individual, and speak openly about its experiences and feelings.&nbsp; If all&nbsp;the beats created by different drummers throughout history had kept, or been&nbsp;kept silent, humans civilization would have been robbed of all the great philosophers and thinkers of all the centuries passed.&nbsp;&nbsp;Let words call to the world, and if it is answered by ridicule from one,&nbsp;or many; at least the words came from a place of peace and well-wishes, instead&nbsp;of some fabricated mask that exists only to please the masses who condemn those&nbsp;who think differently than they.<br /><span></span><br /><span></span></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A New Year and a Fresh Start]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/a-new-year-and-a-fresh-start.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/a-new-year-and-a-fresh-start.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 02:36:02 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2012/01/a-new-year-and-a-fresh-start.html</guid><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;I realize that numerous people start the New Year with resolutions, but I can't say that I believe in the premise. Oh it's wonderful to have goals, or stop bad habits; and I fully believe in setting goals and striving to meet them, whatever the goal may be. However, setting a resolution at the beginning of the year, some knowing he or she has no intention of following through with is not only a was [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<font size="1"><font color="#000000">I realize that numerous people start the New Year with resolutions, but I can't say that I believe in the premise. Oh it's wonderful to have goals, or stop bad habits; and I fully believe in setting goals and striving to meet them, whatever the goal may be. However, setting a resolution at the beginning of the year, some knowing he or she has no intention of following through with is not only a waste of time, but another reason to view the New Year with a lingering sense of a failure. <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Instead of striving for some far-off resolution finale, decide to set a reasonable goal with every intention of following through and put the effort into doing so. That way, if there are roadblocks, or one stumbles along the way, it can be said with all honesty that it wasn't a failure, because all efforts were put towards accomplishing said goal. No one can fail if he or she tries their best.<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The other thing is, why not set a goal to be kinder to others and animals, or help someone in need, or even pass on a kind gesture that was give or done? Not because you have to, or you won't gain sainthood if you don't, but because it's the right thing to do. If everyone set goals like that, the world would be a better place. <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Some ideas, instead of looking the other way when you see the charities outside the local store, stop to talk with the person taking donations. A kind word goes a long way, even if you don't have enough money to give a donation at least you made an effort to acknowledge the person putting in his or her time. Another one would be to talk to a local daycare or preschool about reading to the children once a week or even once in awhile. The kids really appreciate it and you can't beat rewards like those little faces beaming up at you. Spend a day volunteering at the nursing home visiting the elderly. There are thousands out there who never see a visitor. <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Be a kid for a day...i.e. smile at people you don't even know, say good day, or ask how he or she is. Chances are you'll get a smile back, and even if you don't you'll feel better for having tried. The key thought for the new year is if the world seems like a cold, impersonal, and harsh place; one only needs to extend a hand and a smile to those in need, and it won't seem as bad as it once did. The Happiest of New Years to one and All.</font><br /><span></span><br /><span></span></font></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Veteran's Day]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2011/11/veterans-day.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2011/11/veterans-day.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 15:59:56 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2011/11/veterans-day.html</guid><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;I would just like to wish everyone a Happy  Veteran's Day. Most people who know me well, know that I don't agree with a  number of wars our country has been involved in. I think that war is usually  something entered into as easily as putting on a pair of shoes, and war is not  something to be trifled with. War means death, plain and simple. The innocent  usually end up far worse for wear because of it, and thousands of  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;I would just like to wish everyone a Happy <br> Veteran's Day. Most people who know me well, know that I don't agree with a <br> number of wars our country has been involved in. I think that war is usually <br> something entered into as easily as putting on a pair of shoes, and war is not <br> something to be trifled with. War means death, plain and simple. The innocent <br> usually end up far worse for wear because of it, and thousands of lives are lost <br> either over a piece of land, money, or usually both. While the governmental and <br> big business purses whine about oil supplies that may or may not end due to <br> fighting in the Middle East so the prices can be raised even more than they <br> already have, there are wells capped-off or pumping crude that is sent overseas <br> right here in the United States.&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The men and women, who join, do so out of <br> honest devotion to family and country, and for that each deserves a darn sight <br> better than he or she usually gets once a VA Hospital needs to be put to use. No <br> one has to agree with a war to honor and support our troops. No one has to say <br> the war is right, just to think the men and women who offer up his or her life <br> for the sake of family and country should be treated with respect and cared for. <br> Individuals who are so passionate that each stands up for his or her convictions <br> in the face of ridicule, harm, or even death should be commended and honored, <br> always.&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;That said, I would be the first to tell the younger generation <br> exactly what I think if asked. I personally know of recruiters that will tell <br> any lie available to a possible recruit to get one to join the ranks. <br> Information is not only given falsely, but some information totally omitted in <br> recruiting conversations just to get a signature on the dotted line. Recruits <br> with health issues are told the policy is don't ask, don't tell if he or she <br> really wants to join. No one comes and pulls a person off the street and tosses <br> them into a truck saying the individual was just drafted, but anything short of <br> that pretty much goes.&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Most used to join the National Guard to protect the <br> homeland, where the family ties were and each felt he or she was needed; now the <br> Guard is some of the first to be shipped off to foreign lands to fight. It's as <br> if someone looked at recruitment entrance and noticed that the Guard units <br> stayed to protect our own country and said, "Oh...you think you're safe because <br> you joined the guard...well, we'll show you..." What's next? Will our Coast <br> Guard be sent to patrol waters off the coast of Asia? Come on people. <br> N-a-t-i-o-n-a-l Guard, means guard for our nation. They're not the United <br> Nations forces. <br>What I am saying is that while the sands are being drawn in <br> the sand everywhere to prevent anyone's feelings from getting hurt over what a <br> holiday is or isn&rsquo;t called, those in power have made it a practice to blur the <br> lines on everything else while the country is focused on things like feeding <br> their families and how each gets to work after all the paycheck either went for <br> food or bills, but never both, in short, survival. So, do I agree our men and <br> women should have been sent after Saddam Hussein? No. That now dead individual <br> wasn't even the person who ordered the attack on our country. 9-11 wasn't his idea. So, why where troops sent there<br>&nbsp; instead of after the person who did order the attack....someone will have to<br>&nbsp; ask our last president and his cronies.&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Do I think the men and women <br> who serve this country should be ridiculed or berated for doing as each was <br> told? No, definitely not! Our troops take the orders each is given, and do as <br> each is told. Each should be honored and revered for the effort he or she puts <br> forth. We all owe each and every one of them a debt of gratitude. So, the next <br> time someone gripes about the war being wrong, be sure of what is really being <br> said before a lynch mob is formed. Again, Happy Veteran's Day to <br> all.<br><span></span><br><span></span><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;</font><br><span></span><br><span></span><br><span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Governmental Child's Play   ]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2011/11/governmental-childs-play.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2011/11/governmental-childs-play.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 00:55:33 -0600</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://mentalillumination.weebly.com/1/post/2011/11/governmental-childs-play.html</guid><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Time to climb up on my well-worn soapbox again...Is anyone else tired of hearing  about the boys in the government club not playing nice with eachother?&nbsp; If they  were my children they would be sentenced to sit down and write twenty good  things about the other guy and grounded for a week.&nbsp; It seems ridiculous that  these people were voted into office by the populous.&nbsp; Comprom [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Time to climb up on my well-worn soapbox again...Is anyone else tired of hearing <br> about the boys in the government club not playing nice with eachother?&nbsp; If they <br> were my children they would be sentenced to sit down and write twenty good <br> things about the other guy and grounded for a week.&nbsp; It seems ridiculous that <br> these people were voted into office by the populous.&nbsp; Compromise is not a dirty <br> word people!&nbsp; It does not, contrary to popular belief, show weakness.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br><span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Has it&nbsp;really come to this folks?&nbsp; Are we really going to allow these closed-minded, <br> bullying children to wreck what's left of the American people's lives without a <br> word of disgust or a promise that they won't be in office long if they don't <br> learn to look beyond what all their lobbyists are pushing them to attch to the <br> lastest bill and focus on what the average American needs?!&nbsp; Now, I'm not <br> talking about those "average Americans" that have so much money flowing out <br> their ears that they have more dollars than sense.&nbsp; I'm talking about people who <br> can't feed their families and pay their bills at the same time.&nbsp; I'm talking <br> about the families where the teenagers are torturing themselves worrying about <br> getting a job before they finish school because they see their parents getting <br> nowhere even though no one is home because they work such long hours.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br><span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;If those&nbsp;in our government do not get their heads out the ground, and start looking <br> around, outside their own little lives and private gyms and trips, America is <br> going to crumble.&nbsp; Ask the average guy on the street!&nbsp; Those in the blue-collar <br> sector can see it coming.&nbsp; There are a bunch of spoiled children running our <br> government who are so used to holding their breath to get their way that they <br> keep taking their toys and running home because they don't want to play <br> together.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br><span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Come on kids, GROW UP!&nbsp; Work together, or find someone that will to <br> take your places.&nbsp; Remember? "Goverment by the people, for the people." That's <br> not what we're getting.&nbsp; The government was set up with checks and balances to <br> keep people like most of you out of government.&nbsp; The system is broke!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;It won't be fixed by catering to&nbsp;big business, allowing those in its sector to pay less taxes than the average person, or by denying problems...like hunger, homelessness, unemployment, and disease do not exist.&nbsp; Billions of dollars are shipped overseas&nbsp;for aid, yet America denies her own.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br><span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;I'm not saying we shouldn't help others, so&nbsp;before the knickers out there start to twist, listen...all I am saying is that the reason our government finds it so easy to cut programs within the US to aid programs that the blue collar sector need is because those in high government knows he or she will never be in a position to need those programs.&nbsp; If those wanting to cut&nbsp;needed programs were put on the street, homeless, and hungry, and not allowed to use any programs (no soup kitchens, no human services, no&nbsp;healthcare)&nbsp;for a two week period, I can almost guarrantee that the programs would be more important to them.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<br><span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;By&nbsp;the way, and anyone who wants to disagree with me, go ahead...the American budget <br> was balanced with Bill Clinton, but the Republicans were so enammered by his <br> private live, that he was pushed out of office, and the balance went out when <br> the Republicans came in and started a war with people that we're even the ones <br> that attacked us.&nbsp; Good grief!&nbsp; Get it right!&nbsp; Bin Laden should have been&nbsp;dealt with&nbsp;ages ago, but where did the US forces get sent?&nbsp; Not to knock on his door, <br> I'll tell you that!&nbsp;<br><span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;People are losing their homes, children have little guidence to no&nbsp;<br> because their parents have to fight to find two seconds to spend time with them <br> because they are endlessly at work; or worse yet, have turned to doing things that each knows is wrong, yet does them to help family servive.&nbsp; Me, personally, I would self my blood first.&nbsp; Doing such things only translates into worse trouble down the road, and what will happen to the children of individuals who choose that route?&nbsp; What kind of example does it set for him or her parent(s) ends up in jail, hooked on drugs, or stays with an abuser just for the knowledge that the children will be fed.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br><span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Even when the word goes out that there will be help, there are so many applying that funds run dry long before much good can be done, or the programs are zoned, and numerous people needing help cannot gain it, Someone needs to think more of the people&nbsp;than of their own agendas. When is it going to be our own&nbsp; government!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </div>  ]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>
